1. Pregnancy cost - can be almost nothing (additional food & clothing, minimal doctor's visits WITH good insurance) up to tens or even hundreds of thousands of dollars (high risk pregnancies, needing to take long unpaid leave, etc.)
2. Rearing an unwanted child - depends on how "unwanted". If the kid is bounced around the system for a couple of years (ie. totally unwanted), the cost skyrockets, because they will have learned bad habits from their parents and foster parents, and may need constant supervision to prevent them from hurting themselves or others. On the flip side, private agency adoption is really expensive, so a lot of couples who WANT to adopt can't afford that route and are scared by the risks posed by the foster care system.
3. Giving a child up for adoption - can vary from "adoptive parents pay YOU" to the normal costs of pregnancy & birth; not to mention emotional costs.
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2. Rearing an unwanted child - depends on how "unwanted". If the kid is bounced around the system for a couple of years (ie. totally unwanted), the cost skyrockets, because they will have learned bad habits from their parents and foster parents, and may need constant supervision to prevent them from hurting themselves or others. On the flip side, private agency adoption is really expensive, so a lot of couples who WANT to adopt can't afford that route and are scared by the risks posed by the foster care system.
3. Giving a child up for adoption - can vary from "adoptive parents pay YOU" to the normal costs of pregnancy & birth; not to mention emotional costs.