Abortions are not a good thing, but they are better than the alternative

[etherial]

She told me if her parents found out she was pregnant she would be disowned and kicked out of the family home. She also told me that her brothers would murder her boyfriend, and I believed her. About an hour after her operation I and my nurse saw her and her boyfriend walking out of the clinic hand in hand, and I said to my nurse, "Look at that. We saved two lives today."

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[etherial.livejournal.com]

That's also what I meant when I said "shop for a partner". You have to discuss and prepare for all of these things. You can't just find a pair of pants you like, they have to fit your needs.